On Saturdays we chat and send challenges photos
- Aya

- Apr 20, 2025
- 4 min read
North Node in in Pisces, and ow we all can breathe a little more, right before we all begin life transition (I guess depends on the house the North Node is in, or whatever). You can either disbelieve it or you can enter your delusional era with pride. That good pride that we need to survive in a brutal world, what is it?

Good pride does not say I am better than someone else, which is what bad pride says. Good pride says For all my faults, I have a born right to exist, and I have a will, which is the instrument I can use to improve myself. In fact, it is quite impossible to change and improve yourself without a measure of a good pride.
The more of your beautiful energy is open to the world — the more you’ll receive, unless you delusional signed yourself up to Squid Games. Then genially good luck, and don’t fuck it up. But if you had opened any types of media this week you seen that we are kind of already living in never-ending surreal squid/hunger games (pick your fighter). And while it all goes to shit, I started to crave reading my all-time favourite book.
Sometimes it is more than required to just stop for a seconds and re-cope. Great time to get into your fake it till you make it. Because believe you me, but I know exactly how hard that it to not only start doing something from scratch but keep going despite seeing zero results.
You already know exactly where I am going with it — your personal style. It is not as easy to keep it creative, interesting, and under the budget, as it may seem. This is why you get this boost of wanting to change 180 and then after a few tries you stop trying because this is all you had energy and/or knowledge for.
And that’s okay. It happens, and it is more than normal. This is why community is so important. While I am totally fine to going to the movies, gallery, gym by myself, I always wish I had a group of people I can do that shit with. Exactly why I am inviting you to Hot Mama Bakery Club to build your style and community. And as much I was devastated by my laptop suddenly declared its own death (of fakes it, still unsure), the show must go on! Which means Hot Mama Bakery is AVAILABLE for you to join now EVERY MONDAY.
What’s happening on Monday? Glad you asked.
Every week is structured so that you will receive information gradually to keep it focused, straightforward, and no keep you entertained enough without you feeling overwhelmed.
Monday: Theory & Challenge.
You receive files with theory on the week’s topic. Take your time to look through. This information will give you the knowledge on the selected topic. In addition, a challenge that will align with the topic (for instance, put together 3–5 outfits in romantic aesthetic). That you will have a week to put together and share with me in a chat on Saturday (please note that not all subscriptions include chat option).
Wednesday. Practical Theory.
Here is where we start to now only receive the information but see how that would applicable to yourself. Taking into consideration tons of factors and personalisation (don’t worry, you receive full style guide once you select subscription tier. The style guide stays with you forever x), like your physical appearance, inner, close to your soul, euthenics, and lifestyle.
Friday. Clickable Ready-to-wear.
File with ready-to-wear outfit formulas. All items being clickable in different budget range, aesthetics, styles, and climates. Here you can take time and take a look in your wardrobe to see what similar items you have from your desired ready-to-wear looks and plan what you are missing.
Saturday. Challenge Accepted & Chatting.
On Saturdays we chat and send challenges photos. this where you have me to yourself the whole day (jk, probably from 10 am to 7 pm), where you can send me questions on style and our week’s topic, you can send photos from the stores, and just be present in a conversation with like-minded people who has the same mission as you — evolve.

And then the week repeats itself. My goal behind the schedule to build it in a way where you don’t feel the pressure to read all in one day, every day, to the point where you exhaust yourself, and just don’t feel it as something special.
Instead, you will have a room to breathe and take a look inside of yourself to ask most important questions, like how does it make you feel, what do you want to showcase to the world, and whether or not to text him back (to the last the answer is no. If you debate — the answer is always a no lol). That would be my fashion and bestie tips for the week.
In addition, here is a song and online fashion magazine I have been obsessed for a while now.
That’s all.
Okay, love you, bye xo
Your slightly nonchalant fashion stylist,
Aya x




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