Limited tolerance for feeling good in your own style and how to fight it

When I was 5, I had an interview for the International women’s day (my grandpa worked at the tv channel) and someone asked me who I want to be when I grow up. At that specific time of my life I was strongly inspired by very first English teacher, so logically I said I wanted to be a teacher. Little did I know.

However, despite the fact I grew up actually having a degree in English, Spanish, and literature, having done 3 years of teaching the subject, I ultimately realised that English may not be the thing I want to teach or, frankly speaking, working with kids was never my passion to begin with. Nonetheless, the need to help others never went away.

And here I am, decades later, finally understanding how I want to help and what can I teach others. Style. Personal style.

I am on a mission and I am here to make it very much possible for you. Earlier this week I have started reading a book that I was recommended by so few people, and I cannot believe that this treasure is not as popular as any other book — The Big Leap.

Ultimately bringing up the topic of how limited tolerance for feeling good is stopping you to unleash your inner genius. Read while listening to Lofi Beats playlist for focus.

In the book you can discover a tool that is hidden in your mind to achieve higher success (no matter where you are currently in your journey) and say goodbye for good to any limited beliefs (will use my favourite word till it became a total mainstream) you may have on the topic. I couldn’t help to resist of how that is all very well connected with personal style and Hot Mama Bakery product structure and Fashion Scientist vision as a whole.

So here I am to present a tool for you to use right here and right now. I said that before and I will say it again, personal style is never a mandatory for a good life, but damn sure that helps in achieving your goals and have a front seat in important rooms.

A couple of days back, I had a work session with one of my very good friends, and even though we ended up working a few hours only and yapping the rest of 9 hours, she told me that after me presenting to her HMB services she could never have thought that a service of having a personal stylist CAN BE THIS AFFORDABLE.

For basically 4–5 cups of coffee (think of London prices for coffee) you can have legitimate personal styling service, educational platform, and like-minded community.

Why she couldn’t believe that it is that affordable? Well, because, somehow along the way, it seems that personal stylist is always considered a luxury and it you to work with one, you non-negotiably have to have unlimited budget in your bank because how dare you to have mass market or middle market items in your wardrobe. I once was a part of that mindset.

Till the moment I realised that personal style same as confidence is not usually something you are born with, but more of a skill that you learn along your journey of life. A lot of factors can influence your style, but then you are the one and only who can define your own personal style. You just need the right tools. And those tools are here at your disposal for as little as $20 a month ($5/week which in girls math basically free).

With that being said, I want this to be my own marker on how this all started. I am confident that in a spun of a short period of time, I will come back to this very moment and the tear will fall down my eye, reflecting how grateful I am to have made it, and to be able help so many wonderful women and all the babes that identify as such to find their inner spark. Hot Mama Bakery launch is tomorrow.

In the meantime, I encourage you to follow HMB on socials, where we in addition dig a little deeper on what makes Fashion archives — archives. Plus current fashion week shows that just take your breathe away. Like beyond talented Schiaparelli.

That’s all.

Okay, love you, bye xo

Your slightly nonchalant fashion stylist,

Aya x