Drama has exited the chat dramatically

Aya
Apr 20, 2025
3 min read

What if one shot, one opportunity to cease everything you ever wanted to in one moment was suddenly gone right before you could capture it and get a good grip of it, what would you do?

With the whole drama with death of my laptop, and a few other harsh things happening, I realised that my ability to have a first-second dramatic reaction was dramatically gone.

Am I maturing? The frontal lobe did finalise its own development though, so what is it then? Next level? Does that mean I am at the final stage of my mid-life crisis? Well, that would be nice.

Somehow I started viewing it all not as the end-of-the-world type of situation, but as a better opportunity. The book I was writing for the past few years just disappeared from my laptop — okay, I’ll write it again. The laptop is dead, fine, I’ll switch to my old one (old one from 2015, mind you) while I think what to do next. The laptop also paused the launch of Hot Mama Bakery — that’s fine too. Gave me time to prepare better, restructure original business model of it, and come up with a new date for hard launch….

FEBRUARY 3rd Hot Mama Bakery Hard Launch.

Mark your calendars. That is the day your life and your style will enter the new era of transformation, your very own renaissance mixed with a friendly chats, fashion archives inspiration, silly jokes, and so much more tools go get to know yourself in order to develop a style that feels like a second skin. We are evolving, we are building confidence while being comfortable, and not spending a bank on it.

We learn to listen to ourselves, to feel valued and encouraged to be free and express the inner quirks that make you You :) To the point where people would ask are you even real?

And now you do have the opportunity to start the journey every Monday and work your way through the week gathering knowledge and putting the puzzle together on what makes you jump in excitement. We all know what is it deep down, you just need a friendly hand to guide you. And that hand is mine.

If I am being honest with you all, as much as I am excited to have you all evolve your personal style, I am excited even more to build a community and a strong friendship where you all feel are, seen, and heard. At this time and space, it is so easy to feel alone and overwhelmed, so my goal is to make your transformation as easy as possible, and, perhaps, you will find yourself feeling excited about fashion again and getting dressed everyday.

I already talked how the week will be divided when it comes to Hot Mama Bakery, in the previous post. And in the meantime, I am happy to welcome you to HotMamaBakery Chat where you can ask me any question related to style and Hot Mama Bakery community. Simply scan the QR code or click here.

The community is where you get to chat with me and others about style, you day-to-day struggles of putting an outfit, etc. (please keep in mind that the chat option is now open to EVERYONE, however, once the HMB is LIVE, the chat will be available for HMB Elevated Edge and HMB Alchemy subscription types to respect the paid-members).

So I guess to sum up, I don’t necessarily believe anymore that there is such thing as everything happening for a reason. Sometimes it is validly annoying and inconvenient, and totally not for your higher character development, however, at the end of the day, we make the decision how to react to those things. I, personally, extremely surprised how dramatic reaction has left the chat equally dramatically and unexpected, as I take pride in being dramatic queen. On the other side though, I like this cold mind of mine and I feel very much as a part of Succession lol. Most important part — don’t let any of it distract you from moving forward towards that shiny goal(s) of yours. Worth every step of the journey.