What do I have for you that is free and/or affordable?

Now, who said that doom scrolling on TikTok, during your pitty party day, is bad for you? How else am I supposed to pick myself up?

Guessing which ex still loves me and is afraid to tell me (according to my latest taro reading) is a must-go-through ritual that should land on your fyp before, though. That’s like a sign that you are closer to a portal. To a better algorithm out there. Pinky promise.

Now the past week has not just wooped my ass yet again, on Friday it has frankly paralysed me. I was just lying there, not sure if I was very tired from being out and about for 2 days socially, or it was a badly organised sugar rush hangover after eating too many French toasts at Crome this Thursday?

There is a slight chance it is just good ol’ depression creeping out on me, but that’s something I will consider to think about later. Or perhaps never. Sorry, darling, I literally don’t have time for you.

What I do have time for is to bug anyone I know to VOTE for me (Aya Lisch) as a STYLIST OF THE YEAR. Your girl has been nominated, so please, go vote x

Before we go in-depth into my very philosophical thoughts, please know that I am very grateful for my life right now, and a year ago, I dreamed of being where I am right now. However, does not mean ot comes easy and absolutely does not mean that my work and progress stop here. Because, frankly speaking, I wanted to be even further than I am today. With that being said, here is a little recap of A$AP Rocky Zine signing event that I was invited to. And if only I had read it a little closer when I was registering, I would have known from the start that A$AP Rocky himself would not be there. But just for the record, I did shave/wax my entire body just in case his girlfriend would showup as a surprise. Anyway…moving on.

The TikToker that I cannot find on here anymore did say in her long video this phrase that is not only my motto for life now, but simply lives rent-free in my head.

Discipline may be more uncomfortable, but it pays better.

And just like that, I was cured. All I needed to hear on that sad Friday night.

I’m sure a lot of us can relate to this. So, of course, naturally, it got me thinking. It was an easy path, since I was already drowning in my own anxiety, mostly financial.

I sat there and thought of how many times, just this week, it was more “comfortable” for me to take a break from it all, because I had been working for the past 2 hours and had checked all my 67 emails. How effortless it was to put on my sweatpants the minute I got home after 2 days of socialising, when I could have just been on my phone editing or organising files (the last screams at me in my head nonstop by the way), and I love that organising shit. Makes my brain declutter, but NOPE.

It all may be indeed very comfortable, but was it what I really wanted?

Absolutely fucking not.

All I ever wanted was, at first, on the other side of fear. I concurred that. Packed my life multiple times in just a few suitcases, moved across countries and continents.

Fast forward to the present day, all I want now is on the other side of uncomfortable.

And there is me, choosing that toxic current comfort of mine does not speed up my process. Especially when I think of HOW MANY FREE or AFFORDABLE TOOLS are out there for me to utilise, and I simply choose not to do it, or do it slowly.

If you feel like these paragraphs spoke to you… First of all, thank you for reading. Second, I naturally remembered that I, too, offer tons of free and affordable stuff to enhance your personal style. So take this as your sign to, from now on, move smoothly and with discipline when it comes to your style. And the rest will follow. Pinky promise on that one, too.

So what do I have for you that is free and or affordable?

1. Free 1:1 consultation to simply get where you are, even going with all of this. I will help declutter your mind before I take care of that wardrobe.

2. There is a Signature Identity Style Guide worth £79 that is currently on sale for £2.99. This style guide is your actual Identity steps into the world of personal aesthetics, magnetism, and simplicity.

3. Next, we have, obviously, my baby, Hot Mama Bakery Styling Society, that offers 3 levels of AFFORDABLE plans to take you on a journey to build your personal style into a habit.

4. There is also a series Styling Society on my IG and TT, whichever is your preference, where I chose basic items that we all have and style them for different occasions. You are free to pop a comment with your item of choice for the occasion, or both.

5. You can always DM me to receive a FREEBIE on Statement Pieces.

6. Last but not least, I offer a full range of services that are not as affordable for some as all the above, but let’s keep in mind that this all is also me building my business to live a happy life.

Also, this newsletter popped up within 20 minutes of me. Does that mean I need to be in a constant despair state to be able to provide you with my satire effortlessly, only when I am feeling miserable and on the verge of depression?

Okay, that’s all.

Love you, bye xo

Your neurospicy fashion stylist,

Aya x